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<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\nV\u1edbi m\u00ecnh th\u00ec ch\u1eafc l\u00e0 khi m\u00ecnh b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111i l\u00e0m. C\u00e1i c\u1ed9t m\u1ed1c bao gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i, khi con c\u00e1i t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, t\u1ef1 nu\u00f4i s\u1ed1ng ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 gi\u00fap gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ra tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00ecnh t\u1eebng r\u01a1i v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng, v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ee7 ch\u00edn ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00e0 gia nh\u1eadp th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn \u0111\u00f3. R\u1ed3i one thing let to another, m\u00ecnh tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn th\u1eadt. Tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh theo c\u00e1i ki\u1ec3u c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh, bi\u1ebft c\u01b0 x\u1eed \u0111\u00fang m\u1ef1c, t\u1ef1 nu\u00f4i s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh. C\u00f2n n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m m\u00ecnh, well, l\u00fac n\u00e0o m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t \u00e1p l\u1ef1c kh\u1ed5ng l\u1ed3 \u0111\u00e8 l\u00ean m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y khi ph\u1ea3i di\u1ec5n vai ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn \u0111\u00f3. Kh\u1ed1n kh\u1ed5 m\u1ed7i khi bi\u1ebft tr\u00e1i tim m\u00ecnh lu\u00f4n mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 th\u00fa v\u1ecb h\u01a1n, nh\u01b0ng ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i k\u00ec v\u1ecdng, ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh, \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1i m\u00e1c m\u00e0 c\u00f3 khi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh t\u1ef1 d\u1ef1ng ra cho m\u00ecnh. Th\u1ebf l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb7t n\u00f3 xu\u1ed1ng, ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng x\u00e1m nh\u1eddn nh\u1ee3t, t\u1ebb nh\u1ea1t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bu\u00f4ng xu\u00f4i hay b\u00f9ng n\u1ed5?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Khi m\u1ed9t di\u1ec5n vi\u00ean \u0111\u1eafm m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o vai di\u1ec5n n\u00e0o qu\u00e1 l\u00e2u, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ch\u00ednh nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt \u0111\u00f3. C\u00e1i vai di\u1ec5n ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn ch\u00e1n ng\u1eaft n\u00e0y c\u0169ng v\u1eady. L\u00fac n\u00e0y c\u00f3 2 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, m\u1ed9t l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3n b\u1ed9i l\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1ed9 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3ng vai di\u1ec5n \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed1i \u0111\u1eddi. Hai l\u00e0 chi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ea5u cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh lu\u00f4n mu\u1ed1n, m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m vui thu\u1ea7n khi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng, g\u1eafng g\u01b0\u1ee3ng, tr\u1ea7y tr\u1eadt v\u1edbi c\u00e1i l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn nh\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1ed9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 4 n\u0103m. R\u1ed3i b\u00f9ng n\u1ed5<\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt l\u00e0 c\u00e1i kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc anh h\u00f9ng \u0111\u00f3 huy ho\u00e0ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0i ng\u00e0y, sau \u0111\u00f3 m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00e1c<\/strong> th\u00ec c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3<\/strong> nh\u1eefng g\u00ec li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u0169, c\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t, tinh th\u1ea7n v\u00e0 t\u00e2m linh. Kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng. V\u1edbi m\u00ecnh n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n C\u00f3 l\u1ebd \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n m\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u00ecnh xu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00e1y nh\u1ea5t, ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec, ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f2n g\u00ec. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a l\u00ean con ng\u01b0\u1eddi “l\u1edbn” theo ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t c\u1ea3. M\u00ecnh tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t nobody, l\u1ea1c l\u00f5ng gi\u1eefa kh\u00f4ng gian t\u1ed1i om, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec trong tay m\u00e0 c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng bi\u1ebft s\u1ebd \u0111i v\u1ec1 \u0111\u00e2u. L\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 th\u1ee9 duy nh\u1ea5t c\u00f2n s\u00e1ng l\u00e0 tr\u00e1i tim m\u00ecnh. B\u1ed9 n\u00e3o n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0y th\u1eadt t\u1ec7 nh\u01b0ng s\u00e2u th\u1eb3m trong tr\u00e1i tim, m\u00ecnh bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n R\u1ed3i m\u00ecnh \u0111i, c\u1ee9 \u0111i, hay n\u00f3i \u0111\u00fang h\u01a1n l\u00e0 m\u00f2 m\u1eabm. \u0110i m\u00e3i v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng t\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng kh\u00e1c g\u00ec nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3ng t\u1ed1i xung quanh kh\u00e1c, ki\u1ec7t s\u1ee9c, kh\u00f3c, t\u1ef1 \u00f4m l\u1ea5y c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ee9ng d\u1eady, m\u00f2 m\u1eabm, l\u1ea1i ki\u1ec7t s\u1ee9c, l\u1ea7n n\u00e0y l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, \u0111i \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat, m\u1ec7t, ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i, kh\u00f3c, l\u1ea1i \u0111i ti\u1ebfp.<\/p>\n\n\n\n H\u00f3a ra khi ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f2n g\u00ec, khi v\u1ec1 con s\u1ed1 kh\u00f4ng l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 l\u00fac m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00e1i sinh<\/strong>, l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9<\/em> \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n. Trong b\u1ed9 b\u00e0i tarot c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t l\u00e1 hay g\u00e2y s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i nh\u1ea5t, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00e1 Death<\/em> (c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft). Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 l\u1ea1i mang m\u1ed9t \u00fd ngh\u0129a s\u00e2u s\u1eafc m\u00e0 khi tr\u1ea3i qua r\u1ed3i m\u00ecnh m\u1edbi th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u. Death<\/em> l\u00e0 c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft hay c\u00e1i t\u00e0n l\u1ee5i c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t chu tr\u00ecnh. N\u00f3 di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t quy lu\u1eadt c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 c\u00f3 sinh \u1eaft c\u00f3 di\u1ec7t v\u00e0 khi k\u1ebft th\u00fac m\u1ed9t chu tr\u00ecnh c\u0169ng l\u00e0 l\u00fac t\u00e1i sinh m\u1ed9t chu tr\u00ecnh kh\u00e1c. <\/p>\n\n\n\n C\u00f3 l\u1ebd \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn, v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc d\u00f9 ch\u1eb3ng bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111ang ch\u1edd \u0111\u00f3n m\u00ecnh. M\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng ph\u1ea3i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y v\u1ed1n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady sao. Ch\u00fang ta ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o bi\u1ebft tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec s\u1eafp di\u1ec5n ra. V\u1eady t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, v\u00e0o c\u00e1i being<\/strong> thay v\u00ec thinking or over-thinking<\/em>, l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t. D\u1eabu v\u1eady chuy\u1ec7n s\u1ed1ng trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi ta \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00e1 quen v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c lu\u00f4n mu\u1ed1n ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 di\u1ec5n ra trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u00ecnh. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec c\u0169ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a n\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Th\u00f4ng qua tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o h\u01a1i th\u1edf v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng x\u00fac c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a c\u01a1 th\u1ec3. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1i c\u00e1ch khi\u1ebfn cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u00ecnh t\u00ecm l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ni\u1ec1m vui gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb, khi\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh th\u1ea5y cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i th\u1eadt \u0111\u00e1ng y\u00eau th\u00ec l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb trong m\u00ecnh th\u00edch<\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n L\u00fac nh\u1ecf m\u00ecnh m\u00ea \u0111\u1ecdc truy\u1ec7n, m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ecdc l\u1ea1i Harry Potter.<\/p>\n\n\n\n L\u00fac nh\u1ecf m\u00ecnh th\u00edch xem phim, nghe nh\u1ea1c. M\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y m\u00ecnh ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t t\u1ef1a phim b\u1ea5t k\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 xem, nghe m\u1ed9t b\u1ea3n nh\u1ea1c hay.<\/p>\n\n\n\n L\u00fac nh\u1ecf m\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1eadt. M\u00ecnh d\u00e0nh tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n th\u1eddi gian ng\u1ed3i ng\u1eafm nh\u00ecn hai con m\u00e8o trong nh\u00e0 n\u00f4 \u0111\u00f9a, d\u1eabn con Shiba g\u1ea7n nh\u00e0 h\u00fay h\u00fay \u0111i d\u1ea1o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n L\u00fac nh\u1ecf m\u00ecnh th\u00edch ra ch\u1ea1y nh\u1ea3y, ch\u01a1i k\u00edp, ch\u01a1i keo, ch\u01a1i c\u1ea3nh s\u00e1t b\u1eaft c\u01b0\u1edbp. Gi\u1edd m\u00ecnh ch\u01a1i c\u1ea7u l\u00f4ng, b\u01a1i l\u1ed9i, ch\u1ea1y theo con shiba kia :))<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tr\u00e1i tim m\u00ecnh reo vui<\/strong> m\u1ed7i khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb tr\u00ean. Nh\u1eafc m\u00ecnh nh\u1edb m\u00ecnh t\u1eebng t\u1ef1 do, ph\u00f3ng kho\u00e1ng<\/strong> ra sao. \u0110\u01b0a m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i g\u1ea7n h\u01a1n con b\u00e9 Linh h\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o. Con b\u00e9 \u0111\u00f3 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n b\u00ean trong m\u00ecnh, n\u00f3 \u0111ang nh\u1ea3y nh\u00f3t vui v\u1ebb l\u1eafm v\u00ec cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng ch\u1ecbu nghe n\u00f3 r\u1ed3i. “\u0110\u1ebfn l\u00e0 m\u1ec7t c\u00e1i b\u00e0 n\u00e0y” ch\u1eafc n\u00f3 ngh\u0129 v\u1eady b\u1eefa gi\u1edd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u1eabn c\u1ee9 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng \u1edf mi\u1ec1n Neverland, n\u01a1i c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi Peter Pan s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u1edbn l\u00ean v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng m\u00e3i trong tu\u1ed5i th\u01a1 b\u1ea5t t\u1eadn. Ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh nh\u01b0 quy lu\u1eadt t\u1ea5t y\u1ebfu nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i t\u1eeb b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m vui tr\u1ebb th\u01a1 l\u00e0m cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u00fa v\u1ecb, th\u00edch th\u00fa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n D\u0129 nhi\u00ean c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh, tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf ai c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y v\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ed1i b\u1ecf. Tuy nhi\u00ean c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0m, c\u00e1ch h\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee5 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y, \u0111\u1ec1u n\u1eb1m trong b\u00e0n tay v\u00e0 \u00f3c s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ch\u00fac c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m hu\u1ec1<\/strong> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u01b0\u1eddi nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n<\/strong> m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y nh\u00e9!<\/p>\n\n\n\n P\/s: n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t b\u1ed9 phim truy\u1ec1n c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng l\u1ea5y l\u1ea1i \u00fd ngh\u0129a v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m vui trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u00ec m\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t vui \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t b\u1ed9 phim The Secret Life of Walter Mitty [2013]<\/em><\/strong>. Hy v\u1ecdng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u00edch n\u00f3 gi\u1ed1ng m\u00ecnh ^^.<\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" C\u00e1i s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt n\u00e0y ng\u1ea5m ng\u1ea7m mu\u1ed1n b\u00e0y t\u1ecf v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh l\u00e2u l\u1eafm r\u1ed3i. M\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y ni\u1ec1m vui, m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n m\u00ecnh m\u01a1 m\u00e0ng ch\u1eb3ng bi\u1ebft b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111ang l\u00e0m g\u00ec, m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n tr\u00f4i qua r\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed1i ng\u00e0y tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng v\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng vi\u1ec7c “b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n” n\u00e0o khi\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng. \u0110\u1ebfn h\u00f4m nay m\u00ecnh m\u1edbi ch\u00ednh th\u1ee9c nh\u1eadn ra, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00fac nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf, ki\u1ec3m \u0111i\u1ec3m khi \u0111\u01b0a phao nh\u1eafc b\u00e0i, c\u1ea7u xin m\u00ecnh: L\u00e0m \u01a1n nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i ni\u1ec1m vui t\u1eebng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ed1ng bi\u1ebft bao \u0111i m\u00e0! V\u1eady m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00f4m nay, m\u00ecnh m\u1edbi b\u00e0ng ho\u00e0ng, b\u1ed3i h\u1ed3i, x\u00fac \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u1eadn ra… T\u1eeb khi n\u00e0o? T\u1eeb khi n\u00e0o m\u00e0 ta gi\u1ebft ch\u1ebft \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb b\u00ean trong ta? T\u1eeb khi n\u00e0o ta s\u1ed1ng th\u1eadt h\u1eddi h\u1ee3t, tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng, v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng con s\u1ed1? T\u1eeb khi n\u00e0o ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n th\u1ea5y ni\u1ec1m vui v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng s\u1edf th\u00edch t\u1eeb b\u00e9 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh hay t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n l\u00e0 ta qu\u00ean lu\u00f4n ch\u00fang? V\u1edbi m\u00ecnh th\u00ec ch\u1eafc l\u00e0 khi m\u00ecnh b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111i l\u00e0m. C\u00e1i c\u1ed9t m\u1ed1c bao gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i, khi con c\u00e1i t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, t\u1ef1 nu\u00f4i s\u1ed1ng ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 gi\u00fap gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ra tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00ecnh t\u1eebng r\u01a1i v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng, v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ee7 ch\u00edn ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00e0 gia nh\u1eadp th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn \u0111\u00f3. R\u1ed3i one thing let to another, m\u00ecnh tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn th\u1eadt. Tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh theo c\u00e1i ki\u1ec3u c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh, bi\u1ebft c\u01b0 x\u1eed \u0111\u00fang m\u1ef1c, t\u1ef1 nu\u00f4i s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh. C\u00f2n n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m m\u00ecnh, well, l\u00fac n\u00e0o m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t \u00e1p l\u1ef1c kh\u1ed5ng l\u1ed3 \u0111\u00e8 l\u00ean m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y khi ph\u1ea3i di\u1ec5n vai ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn \u0111\u00f3. Kh\u1ed1n kh\u1ed5 m\u1ed7i khi bi\u1ebft tr\u00e1i tim m\u00ecnh lu\u00f4n mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 th\u00fa v\u1ecb h\u01a1n, nh\u01b0ng ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i k\u00ec v\u1ecdng, ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh, \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1i m\u00e1c m\u00e0 c\u00f3 khi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh t\u1ef1 d\u1ef1ng ra cho m\u00ecnh. Th\u1ebf l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb7t n\u00f3 xu\u1ed1ng, ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng x\u00e1m nh\u1eddn nh\u1ee3t, t\u1ebb nh\u1ea1t. Bu\u00f4ng xu\u00f4i hay b\u00f9ng n\u1ed5? Khi m\u1ed9t di\u1ec5n vi\u00ean \u0111\u1eafm m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o vai di\u1ec5n n\u00e0o qu\u00e1 l\u00e2u, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ch\u00ednh nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt \u0111\u00f3. C\u00e1i vai di\u1ec5n ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn ch\u00e1n ng\u1eaft n\u00e0y c\u0169ng v\u1eady. L\u00fac n\u00e0y c\u00f3 2 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, m\u1ed9t l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3n b\u1ed9i l\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1ed9 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3ng vai di\u1ec5n \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed1i \u0111\u1eddi. Hai l\u00e0 chi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ea5u cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh lu\u00f4n mu\u1ed1n, m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m vui thu\u1ea7n khi\u1ebft. M\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng, g\u1eafng g\u01b0\u1ee3ng, tr\u1ea7y tr\u1eadt v\u1edbi c\u00e1i l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn nh\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1ed9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 4 n\u0103m. R\u1ed3i b\u00f9ng n\u1ed5. S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt l\u00e0 c\u00e1i kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc anh h\u00f9ng \u0111\u00f3 huy ho\u00e0ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0i ng\u00e0y, sau \u0111\u00f3 m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00e1c th\u00ec c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u0169, c\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t, tinh th\u1ea7n v\u00e0 t\u00e2m linh. Kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng. V\u1edbi m\u00ecnh n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n m\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u00ecnh xu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00e1y nh\u1ea5t, ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec, ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f2n g\u00ec. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a l\u00ean con ng\u01b0\u1eddi “l\u1edbn” theo ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t c\u1ea3. M\u00ecnh tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t nobody, l\u1ea1c l\u00f5ng gi\u1eefa kh\u00f4ng gian t\u1ed1i om, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec trong tay m\u00e0 c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng bi\u1ebft s\u1ebd \u0111i v\u1ec1 \u0111\u00e2u. L\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 th\u1ee9 duy nh\u1ea5t c\u00f2n s\u00e1ng l\u00e0 tr\u00e1i tim m\u00ecnh. B\u1ed9 n\u00e3o n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0y th\u1eadt t\u1ec7 nh\u01b0ng s\u00e2u th\u1eb3m trong tr\u00e1i tim, m\u00ecnh bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn. R\u1ed3i m\u00ecnh \u0111i, c\u1ee9 \u0111i, hay n\u00f3i \u0111\u00fang h\u01a1n l\u00e0 m\u00f2 m\u1eabm. \u0110i m\u00e3i v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng t\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng kh\u00e1c g\u00ec nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3ng t\u1ed1i xung quanh kh\u00e1c, ki\u1ec7t s\u1ee9c, kh\u00f3c, t\u1ef1 \u00f4m l\u1ea5y c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ee9ng d\u1eady, m\u00f2 m\u1eabm, l\u1ea1i ki\u1ec7t s\u1ee9c, l\u1ea7n n\u00e0y l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, \u0111i \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat, m\u1ec7t, ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i, kh\u00f3c, l\u1ea1i \u0111i ti\u1ebfp. B\u00e0i h\u1ecdc Tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng H\u00f3a ra khi ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f2n g\u00ec, khi v\u1ec1 con s\u1ed1 kh\u00f4ng l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 l\u00fac m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00e1i sinh, l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n. Trong b\u1ed9 b\u00e0i tarot c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t l\u00e1 hay g\u00e2y s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i nh\u1ea5t, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00e1 Death (c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft). Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 l\u1ea1i mang m\u1ed9t \u00fd ngh\u0129a s\u00e2u s\u1eafc m\u00e0 khi tr\u1ea3i qua r\u1ed3i m\u00ecnh m\u1edbi th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u. Death l\u00e0 c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft hay c\u00e1i t\u00e0n l\u1ee5i c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t chu tr\u00ecnh. N\u00f3 di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t quy lu\u1eadt c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 c\u00f3 sinh \u1eaft c\u00f3 di\u1ec7t v\u00e0 khi k\u1ebft th\u00fac m\u1ed9t chu tr\u00ecnh c\u0169ng l\u00e0 l\u00fac t\u00e1i sinh m\u1ed9t chu tr\u00ecnh kh\u00e1c. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn, v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc d\u00f9 ch\u1eb3ng bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111ang ch\u1edd \u0111\u00f3n m\u00ecnh. M\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng ph\u1ea3i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y v\u1ed1n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady sao. Ch\u00fang ta ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o bi\u1ebft tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec s\u1eafp di\u1ec5n ra. V\u1eady t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, v\u00e0o c\u00e1i being thay v\u00ec thinking or over-thinking, l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t. D\u1eabu v\u1eady chuy\u1ec7n s\u1ed1ng trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi ta \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00e1 quen v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c lu\u00f4n mu\u1ed1n ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 di\u1ec5n ra trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u00ecnh. Chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec c\u0169ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. How to live in the being Th\u00f4ng qua tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o h\u01a1i th\u1edf v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng x\u00fac c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a c\u01a1 th\u1ec3. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1i c\u00e1ch khi\u1ebfn cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u00ecnh t\u00ecm l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ni\u1ec1m vui gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb, khi\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh th\u1ea5y cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i th\u1eadt \u0111\u00e1ng y\u00eau th\u00ec l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb trong m\u00ecnh th\u00edch. L\u00fac nh\u1ecf m\u00ecnh m\u00ea \u0111\u1ecdc truy\u1ec7n, m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ecdc l\u1ea1i Harry Potter. L\u00fac nh\u1ecf m\u00ecnh th\u00edch xem phim, nghe nh\u1ea1c. M\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y m\u00ecnh ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t t\u1ef1a phim b\u1ea5t k\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 xem, nghe m\u1ed9t b\u1ea3n nh\u1ea1c hay. L\u00fac nh\u1ecf m\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1eadt. M\u00ecnh d\u00e0nh tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n th\u1eddi gian ng\u1ed3i ng\u1eafm nh\u00ecn hai con m\u00e8o trong nh\u00e0 n\u00f4 \u0111\u00f9a, d\u1eabn con Shiba g\u1ea7n nh\u00e0 h\u00fay h\u00fay \u0111i d\u1ea1o. L\u00fac nh\u1ecf m\u00ecnh th\u00edch ra ch\u1ea1y nh\u1ea3y, ch\u01a1i k\u00edp, ch\u01a1i keo, ch\u01a1i c\u1ea3nh s\u00e1t b\u1eaft c\u01b0\u1edbp. Gi\u1edd m\u00ecnh ch\u01a1i c\u1ea7u l\u00f4ng, b\u01a1i l\u1ed9i, ch\u1ea1y theo con shiba kia :)) Tr\u00e1i tim m\u00ecnh reo vui m\u1ed7i khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb tr\u00ean. Nh\u1eafc m\u00ecnh nh\u1edb m\u00ecnh t\u1eebng t\u1ef1 do, ph\u00f3ng kho\u00e1ng ra sao. \u0110\u01b0a m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i g\u1ea7n h\u01a1n con b\u00e9 Linh h\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o. Con b\u00e9 \u0111\u00f3 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n b\u00ean trong m\u00ecnh, n\u00f3 \u0111ang nh\u1ea3y nh\u00f3t vui v\u1ebb l\u1eafm v\u00ec cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng ch\u1ecbu nghe n\u00f3 r\u1ed3i. “\u0110\u1ebfn l\u00e0 m\u1ec7t c\u00e1i b\u00e0 n\u00e0y” ch\u1eafc n\u00f3 ngh\u0129 v\u1eady b\u1eefa gi\u1edd. Life goes on Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u1eabn c\u1ee9 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng \u1edf mi\u1ec1n Neverland, n\u01a1i c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi Peter Pan s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u1edbn l\u00ean v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng m\u00e3i trong tu\u1ed5i th\u01a1 b\u1ea5t t\u1eadn. Ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh nh\u01b0 quy lu\u1eadt t\u1ea5t y\u1ebfu nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i t\u1eeb b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m vui tr\u1ebb th\u01a1 l\u00e0m cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u00fa v\u1ecb, th\u00edch th\u00fa. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh, tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf ai c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y v\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ed1i b\u1ecf. Tuy nhi\u00ean c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0m, c\u00e1ch h\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee5 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y, \u0111\u1ec1u n\u1eb1m trong b\u00e0n tay v\u00e0 \u00f3c s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Ch\u00fac c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m hu\u1ec1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u01b0\u1eddi nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y nh\u00e9! P\/s: n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t b\u1ed9 phim truy\u1ec1n c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng l\u1ea5y l\u1ea1i \u00fd ngh\u0129a v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m vui trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u00ec m\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t vui \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t b\u1ed9 phim The Secret Life of Walter Mitty [2013]. 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Tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
How to live in the being<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
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