{"id":1571,"date":"2024-07-05T19:01:59","date_gmt":"2024-07-05T12:01:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/khanhl.ink\/?p=1571"},"modified":"2025-08-06T20:31:43","modified_gmt":"2025-08-06T13:31:43","slug":"hon-ca-ban-than","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/khanhl.ink\/index.php\/2024\/07\/05\/hon-ca-ban-than\/","title":{"rendered":"H\u01a1n c\u1ea3 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

\u1ede b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 y\u00eau b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u quan s\u00e1t b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/a>. H\u00f4m nay ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd b\u00e0n v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 “h\u01a1n” c\u1ea3 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y. Ch\u00fac c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ecdc th\u00fa v\u1ecb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t l\u00ean tr\u00ean c\u1ea3 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n sau khi \u0111\u00e3 nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00fang nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 l\u00e0, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi k\u1ebb th\u00f9 \u1ea9n m\u00ecnh l\u00e2u n\u0103m, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3. \u0110\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi trang b\u1ecb nh\u1eefng th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng ch\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u1ea1i l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i. N\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng sinh t\u1ed3n gi\u00fap t\u1ed5 ti\u00ean ch\u00fang ta s\u1ed1ng s\u00f3t, sinh s\u00f4i v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. N\u00f3 gi\u00fap h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay, nh\u01b0ng m\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o. V\u00ed nh\u01b0 n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n khi\u1ebfn ta v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng ch\u1ecdn \u1edf b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p, r\u1ed3i ta ph\u1ea3i thay \u0111\u1ed5i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh, \u0111eo m\u1eb7t n\u1ea1 b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1ng l\u1ebd ta n\u00ean c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ef1 do l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh ta nh\u1ea5t. Hay n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 n\u00f3i t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i l\u00e0m ta “m\u1eafc k\u1eb9t” trong r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u bu\u1ed5i g\u1eb7p m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i. R\u1ed3i n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 t\u1ed1t, n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 y\u00eau hay n\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 s\u1ee3 t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng khi y\u00eau,… v\u00f4 v\u00e0n n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3. Khi \u0111\u00e3 d\u00e0nh qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng cho n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3, ta c\u00f2n \u0111\u00e2u s\u1ee9c l\u1ef1c cho t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n? Hu\u1ed1ng g\u00ec l\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n h\u01a1n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n

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N\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 l\u00ed do c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 c\u1ea3, v\u00ec d\u0129 nhi\u00ean ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n s\u1ed1ng trong s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i. Nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt l\u00e0 n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ec3 n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 thao t\u00fang cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Ta l\u1ea1i ng\u00e0y m\u1ed9t \u0111\u01b0a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ebfn g\u1ea7n h\u01a1n v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 nh\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1ed9, h\u00e8n nh\u00e1t, r\u1eddi xa con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, nh\u1eefng \u01b0\u1edbc mong th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 trong tr\u00e1i tim m\u00ecnh. R\u1ed3i m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y ta soi g\u01b0\u01a1ng, th\u1ea5y l\u1ea1 l\u1eabm v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 \u00e1nh m\u1eaft m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3n chi\u1ebfu trong \u0111\u00f3. \u0110\u00f3 m\u1edbi th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ee3!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 m\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qua t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m sci-fi huy\u1ec1n tho\u1ea1i Dune – Frank Herbert, m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi d\u1ea1y c\u1ed5 x\u01b0a t\u1eeb c\u00e1c Bene Gesserit th\u00f4ng th\u00e1i:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“Ta kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i<\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u1ee3 h\u00e3i gi\u1ebft ch\u1ebft t\u00e2m tr\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u1ee3 h\u00e3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft nh\u1ecf mang \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 h\u1ee7y di\u1ec7t ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ta s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ta s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3 \u0111i kh\u1eafp ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta v\u00e0 xuy\u00ean qua ta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

R\u1ed3i khi n\u00f3 \u0111i qua, ta s\u1ebd xoay con m\u1eaft b\u00ean trong \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i c\u1ee7a n\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u1ede nh\u1eefng n\u01a1i n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 \u0111i qua ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f2n g\u00ec c\u1ea3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh ta.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u1eady n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ecdi lo\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m x\u00fac kh\u00e1c. N\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn v\u00e0 \u0111i. N\u1ebfu ta \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3 \u0111i qua ta, ta s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y n\u00f3 “\u1ea3o” nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. N\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m tin x\u01b0a c\u0169, nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 cho b\u1ea3n th\u1ec3 m\u1edbi c\u1ee7a ta hay l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eafp x\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ec3 “thu\u1ea7n h\u00f3a” ta ph\u1ea3i ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng theo l\u1ec1 l\u1ed1i c\u0169.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

G\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 l\u1edbn, n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 ra kh\u1ecfi v\u00f9ng an to\u00e0n. M\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng 4 n\u0103m li\u1ec1n v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh nh\u1ea3y kh\u1ecfi n\u00f3 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 tr\u0103n tr\u1edf r\u1ea5t r\u1ea5t l\u00e2u. M\u00ecnh s\u1ee3 m\u1ea5t \u0111i s\u1ef1 \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh, nh\u01b0ng m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n g\u00ec gi\u1eef m\u00ecnh n\u1eefa ngo\u00e0i c\u00e1i income \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eb7n c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. Ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c quay l\u1ea1i l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u0169 khi\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi, ki\u1ec7t s\u1ee9c d\u00f9 ch\u01b0a th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 \u0111i l\u00e0m l\u1ea1i v\u00ec c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh, d\u00f9 m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m n\u00f3 t\u1ed1t. V\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 th\u1ea5m v\u00e0o m\u00ecnh, r\u1ed3i d\u1ea7n \u0111i qua m\u00ecnh trong khi m\u00ecnh t\u00ecm h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111i m\u1edbi. M\u00ecnh hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 nh\u1eefng th\u1eed th\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m freelance nh\u01b0ng m\u00ecnh s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 c\u00f3 l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng m\u00ecnh th\u00edch. R\u1ed3i v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c g\u1eedi th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p \u0111\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh “c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n nh\u1ea5t” b\u1eb1ng nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch. M\u00ecnh v\u1eabn c\u00f2n s\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ea5y, nh\u01b0ng m\u00ecnh quy\u1ebft l\u00e0m c\u00f9ng n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3. R\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd nh\u00ecn n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 qua \u0111i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u00ecnh \u0111ang d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 soi chi\u1ebfu v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 x\u01b0a c\u0169. Khi v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00e1i r\u1ed3i, th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c th\u00f4i. Khi n\u00f3 qua \u0111i, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i ta phi\u00ean b\u1ea3n d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 do h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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May we face our fear, set our intention clear and the universe will have it way.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

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Th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 <\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt<\/h3>\n\n\n
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\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 m\u00ecnh nh\u1eafc t\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, v\u00ec n\u00f3 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh. \u0110\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n h\u01a1n m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y, c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng m\u1eb7t c\u00f2n h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf \u1edf b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n do l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng v\u00f4 minh l\u00e2u ng\u00e0y. M\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng g\u00f3c t\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch duy nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 ta ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n <\/strong>ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Ta nh\u00ecn n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1ch quan<\/strong> v\u00e0 ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt nh\u1ea5t<\/strong>. Ta kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 d\u00f9ng l\u00ed tr\u00ed \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1nh l\u1eeba b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o r\u1ed3i g\u1ea1t b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng m\u1eb7t c\u00f2n y\u1ebfu k\u00e9m m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a n\u00f3, th\u00ec n\u00f3 s\u1ebd v\u1eabn m\u00e3i \u1edf \u0111\u00f3, t\u1ea1o th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t s\u1ee9c \u1ef3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n m\u00e3i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n h\u01a1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u00e0i h\u1ecdc n\u00e0y m\u00ecnh hi\u1ec3u s\u00e2u s\u1eafc, v\u00ec m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng th\u1eadt tr\u1ebb con v\u00e0 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. C\u00e1i sai l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t khi\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh kh\u00f3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng c\u01a1n \u0111au l\u00f2ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu nh\u1eadn l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh bu\u1ed3n, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i? M\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh n\u00ean m\u00ecnh c\u1ee9 \u0111\u1eafm s\u00e2u v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac t\u1ed1t “gi\u1ea3”, r\u1ed3i m\u1eafc k\u1eb9t trong v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e3i m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i. Cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi b\u1ea1n m\u00ecnh nh\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng “chuy\u1ec7n v\u1eeba r\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 m\u00e0”, m\u00ecnh m\u1edbi v\u1ee1 \u00f2a ra kh\u00f3c n\u1ee9c n\u1edf r\u1ed3i ng\u1ed3i xu\u1ed1ng th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt v\u1edbi t\u1eebng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac nh\u1ecf nh\u1ea5t. R\u1ed3i ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129, nh\u1eefng c\u1ed1 t\u1eadt l\u00e2u ng\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1c l\u1ed1i, m\u00ecnh vi\u1ebft h\u1ebft ra r\u1ed3i ph\u00e2n t\u00edch t\u1eebng \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ed9t. Ch\u1ec9 khi \u0111\u00f3, m\u00ecnh m\u1edbi gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 s\u00e2u g\u1ed1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec3n bi\u1ebfn th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt c\u00f2n quan tr\u1ecdng v\u00ec n\u00f3 gi\u1eef b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n. D\u1eabu bi\u1ebft cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ea9y khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta tr\u00f4i l\u0103n, ph\u1ea3i \u0111eo m\u1eb7t n\u1ea1 \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1ed3ng g\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Vi\u1ec7c “v\u00e0o vai” n\u00e0y, \u0111\u00f4i l\u00fac ch\u00fang ta t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 n\u00f3, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh th\u00f4i. Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 th\u00ed nghi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 con c\u00f3c trong n\u1ed3i n\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111un l\u00ean t\u1eeb t\u1eeb v\u1eady. Khi ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1c l\u1ed1i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, \u0111\u00f4i khi l\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u1ec5. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00ec v\u1eady, ngay khi c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i, ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 sau m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ta d\u00e0nh cho m\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng l\u00fac t\u0129nh l\u1eb7ng, s\u00e0ng l\u1ecdc l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc ch\u01b0a ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, r\u1ed3i t\u1ef1 nh\u1ee7 l\u1ea7n sau ta s\u1ebd l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ta n\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1a v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n, nh\u1edd h\u1ecd nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf ta m\u1ed7i khi th\u1ea5y ta \u0111ang c\u1ed1 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ai kh\u00e1c. C\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t v\u1eabn n\u00ean t\u1ef1 tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 b\u1ea1n nh\u1ea5t. Khi ta y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i qu\u00e1, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 s\u1ee9c g\u1ed3ng g\u00e1nh m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh n\u1eefa, ta h\u00e3y nh\u1edd \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n y\u00eau xung quanh. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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All the answer is within yourself, you just need to be completely honest.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

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C\u1edfi m\u1edf<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

M\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t th\u00edch t\u00ednh t\u1eeb c\u1edfi m\u1edf trong ti\u1ebfng anh (open – minded), ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ea7u \u00f3c lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1edf ra \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c m\u1edbi. <\/p>\n\n\n

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\u0110\u00f4i khi ch\u00fang ta g\u1eb7p nh\u1eefng t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9, r\u1ed3i t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1, hay m\u1ea5t ni\u1ec1m tin v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Ch\u00fang ta h\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch “b\u1ecf h\u1ecdc”- lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc c\u0169 v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc m\u1edbi t\u1eeb b\u1ea5t k\u00ec t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o. C\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 ta xem n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m x\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00e1u v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu ti\u1ebfp thu nh\u1eefng nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c m\u1edbi. Nh\u00ecn s\u00e2u xa, th\u00ec c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u “\u0111\u00f3ng” n\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 v\u1ecf b\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 \u1ea9n gi\u1ea5u \u0111\u1eb1ng sau. Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m v\u00ec s\u1ee3 t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u01b0 l\u1ea7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc. M\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i hay chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, th\u00ec c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ta \u0111\u00e3 \u0111ang l\u00f9i l\u1ea1i r\u1ed3i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1edfi m\u1edf r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng. N\u00f3 cho ta c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m m\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh, cho ta nh\u1eefng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng, k\u0129 n\u0103ng, b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc m\u1edbi. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 s\u1ed1ng c\u1edfi m\u1edf th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. V\u00ec h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u00e0 l\u00e0m \u0111\u1eb9p th\u00eam nh\u1eefng m\u1eb7t thi\u1ec7n l\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y. C\u00e1 nh\u00e2n m\u00ecnh lu\u00f4n r\u1ea5t qu\u00fd, tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng “b\u1ecf h\u1ecdc”. V\u00e0 ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng \u0111ang luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1edfi m\u1edf n\u00e0y m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y. N\u00f3 gi\u00fap m\u00ecnh y\u00eau qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng r\u1ed3i x\u00e2y l\u1ea1i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, y\u00eau vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh m\u1edbi m\u1ebb v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n h\u01a1n m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y. \u0110\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi, m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng y\u00eau cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00ec n\u00f3 lu\u00f4n ch\u1ee9a \u0111\u1ef1ng nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc m\u1edbi. M\u00ecnh t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 qu\u00fd m\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh h\u01a1n v\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea7y, kh\u01a1i d\u1eady nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t \u0111\u1ec3 ta h\u1ecdc th\u00eam, hay cho ta nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean<\/h3>\n\n\n
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Trong quy\u1ec3n Ho\u00e0ng t\u1eed b\u00e9<\/em> c\u00f3 \u0111o\u1ea1n:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“Ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn y\u00eau nh\u1eefng con s\u1ed1. Khi b\u1ea1n k\u1ec3 cho h\u1ecd r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 quan tr\u1ecdng. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd quan t\u00e2m v\u1ec1: Gi\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y th\u00edch tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i n\u00e0o nh\u1ea5t? Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y c\u00f3 s\u01b0u t\u1eadp b\u01b0\u01a1m b\u01b0\u1edbm kh\u00f4ng?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecd h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1: S\u1ed1 tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y? Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y n\u1eb7ng bao nhi\u00eau? Cha ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao nhi\u00eau ti\u1ec1n?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Qua nh\u1eefng con s\u1ed1 n\u00e0y h\u1ecd cho r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y<\/strong>.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110o\u1ea1n tr\u00edch tr\u00ean l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u0111o\u1ea1n m\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u00edch trong quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch. N\u00f3 l\u00e0m m\u00ecnh b\u1eebng t\u1ec9nh v\u1ec1 t\u00ednh th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, hay kinh t\u1ebf c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. Sau m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i tr\u1ea3i qua nhi\u1ec1u bi\u1ebfn c\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n c\u01a1m \u00e1o g\u1ea1o ti\u1ec1n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 nh\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1ed9 c\u00e1i t\u00f4i h\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 d\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00ec v\u1eady s\u1ef1 h\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng, n\u00f3 cho ta con m\u1eaft m\u1edbi m\u1ebb, con m\u1eaft c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb th\u01a1 lu\u00f4n th\u00edch th\u00fa kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 v\u1ed1n l\u00e0. Tr\u1ebb th\u01a1 lu\u00f4n v\u00f4 t\u01b0 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m, \u0111\u00f4i khi kh\u00f4ng l\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 nh\u01b0ng sau \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m qu\u00fd b\u00e1u l\u00e0m h\u00e0nh trang \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o k\u1ec3 cho nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c nghe. Tr\u1ebb th\u01a1 h\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n, y\u00eau \u0111\u1eddi, say m\u00ea ch\u00ednh cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. M\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y v\u1edbi ch\u00fang l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c th\u00e1m hi\u1ec3m ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n m\u1edbi. S\u1ef1 h\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean cho ph\u00e9p ch\u00fang hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u00fang b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi v\u1eadt. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u00fang hi\u1ec3u con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang \u0111ang n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n c\u00f9ng, ch\u00fang hi\u1ec3u l\u00e1 c\u00e2y m\u00e0u xanh th\u1eadt m\u00e1t l\u00e0nh, ch\u00fang y\u00eau th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi chung quanh ch\u00fang. Ch\u00fang y\u00eau ai \u0111\u00f3 v\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u0169ng y\u00eau ch\u00fang, t\u1eed t\u1ebf v\u1edbi ch\u00fang, vui ch\u01a1i c\u00f9ng ch\u00fang. Khi ch\u00fang y\u00eau ai \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n y\u00eau m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 gi\u00e0u hay ngh\u00e8o. Khi ch\u00fang y\u00eau, ch\u00fang b\u00e0y t\u1ecf h\u1ebft l\u00f2ng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang v\u1ebd, vi\u1ebft l\u1eddi y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. Ch\u00fang t\u1eb7ng b\u1ea1n nh\u00e1nh c\u1ecf m\u00e0 ch\u00fang th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1eb9p, ch\u00fang \u00f4m ch\u1ea7m l\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n. S\u1ef1 h\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean v\u00e0 thu\u1ea7n khi\u1ebft n\u00e0y \u1edf ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn – ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e2u r\u1ed3i?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi ta quay l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp t\u00e1ch m\u00ecnh ra kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t, \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb, danh v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, khi ta t\u1eadp s\u1ed1ng trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, tr\u00e2n qu\u00fd nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb m\u00e0u nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u1edf ngay gi\u1edd ph\u00fat n\u00e0y v\u00e0 n\u01a1i \u0111\u00e2y, ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi s\u00e1ng t\u1ecf nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 t\u00ecm l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 h\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y. Ta ng\u1ed3i \u0103n t\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh, l\u1eafng nghe c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd th\u1eadt k\u0129, ta d\u00e0nh cho b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 ta nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i, kh\u00f4ng v\u00ec m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 hay l\u1ee3i \u00edch g\u00ec c\u1ea3, ta h\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, h\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. R\u1ed3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean ta h\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh vi\u1ebft, m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ef1 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 k\u00ec di\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 mang l\u1ea1i. M\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u00ecnh g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 thay \u0111\u1ed5i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n. M\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 thu\u1eadn theo d\u00f2ng ch\u1ea3y t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean<\/em> h\u01a1n, t\u00e2m m\u00ecnh b\u00ecnh y\u00ean<\/em> h\u01a1n v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec3n bi\u1ebfn t\u00edch c\u1ef1c<\/em> h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0111\u1ecdc ho\u1eb7c nghe qua \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3, gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u0111\u1ecdc b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u1eadt s\u1ef1, ch\u1ec9 mang l\u1ea1i gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 khi m\u00ecnh t\u1ef1 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c ch\u1ee9ng<\/strong>. C\u00f2n m\u1ed9t khi \u0111\u00e3 xem n\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed thuy\u1ebft th\u00ec m\u00e3i m\u00e3i n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 l\u00ed thuy\u1ebft m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. \u0110\u1ec3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1ec1 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng, l\u1eddi n\u00f3i, suy ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3, bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng l\u1ec1 l\u1ed1i c\u0169. Hi\u1ec3u b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1ch quan, c\u1edfi m\u1edf \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn c\u00e1i m\u1edbi v\u00e0 h\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 v\u1ed1n l\u00e0.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mong c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ng\u00e0y m\u1ed9t h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 ch\u00ednh n\u00f3 n\u1eefa. S\u1ef1 k\u00ec di\u1ec7u do qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u00f3 mang l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ai kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn r\u00f5 h\u01a1n ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Love,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u1ede b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 y\u00eau b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u quan s\u00e1t b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. H\u00f4m nay ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd b\u00e0n v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 “h\u01a1n” c\u1ea3 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y. Ch\u00fac c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ecdc th\u00fa v\u1ecb. \u0110\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t l\u00ean tr\u00ean c\u1ea3 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n sau khi \u0111\u00e3 nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00fang nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 l\u00e0, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi k\u1ebb th\u00f9 \u1ea9n m\u00ecnh l\u00e2u n\u0103m, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3. \u0110\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi trang b\u1ecb nh\u1eefng th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y. \u0110\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng ch\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u1ea1i l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i. N\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng sinh t\u1ed3n gi\u00fap t\u1ed5 ti\u00ean ch\u00fang ta s\u1ed1ng s\u00f3t, sinh s\u00f4i v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. N\u00f3 gi\u00fap h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay, nh\u01b0ng m\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o. V\u00ed nh\u01b0 n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n khi\u1ebfn ta v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng ch\u1ecdn \u1edf b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p, r\u1ed3i ta ph\u1ea3i thay \u0111\u1ed5i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh, \u0111eo m\u1eb7t n\u1ea1 b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1ng l\u1ebd ta n\u00ean c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ef1 do l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh ta nh\u1ea5t. Hay n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 n\u00f3i t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i l\u00e0m ta “m\u1eafc k\u1eb9t” trong r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u bu\u1ed5i g\u1eb7p m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i. R\u1ed3i n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 t\u1ed1t, n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 y\u00eau hay n\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 s\u1ee3 t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng khi y\u00eau,… v\u00f4 v\u00e0n n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3. Khi \u0111\u00e3 d\u00e0nh qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng cho n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3, ta c\u00f2n \u0111\u00e2u s\u1ee9c l\u1ef1c cho t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n? Hu\u1ed1ng g\u00ec l\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n h\u01a1n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. N\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 l\u00ed do c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 c\u1ea3, v\u00ec d\u0129 nhi\u00ean ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n s\u1ed1ng trong s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i. Nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt l\u00e0 n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ec3 n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 thao t\u00fang cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Ta l\u1ea1i ng\u00e0y m\u1ed9t \u0111\u01b0a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ebfn g\u1ea7n h\u01a1n v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 nh\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1ed9, h\u00e8n nh\u00e1t, r\u1eddi xa con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, nh\u1eefng \u01b0\u1edbc mong th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 trong tr\u00e1i tim m\u00ecnh. R\u1ed3i m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y ta soi g\u01b0\u01a1ng, th\u1ea5y l\u1ea1 l\u1eabm v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 \u00e1nh m\u1eaft m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3n chi\u1ebfu trong \u0111\u00f3. \u0110\u00f3 m\u1edbi th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ee3! M\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 m\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qua t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m sci-fi huy\u1ec1n tho\u1ea1i Dune – Frank Herbert, m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi d\u1ea1y c\u1ed5 x\u01b0a t\u1eeb c\u00e1c Bene Gesserit th\u00f4ng th\u00e1i: “Ta kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i S\u1ee3 h\u00e3i gi\u1ebft ch\u1ebft t\u00e2m tr\u00ed. S\u1ee3 h\u00e3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft nh\u1ecf mang \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 h\u1ee7y di\u1ec7t ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n. Ta s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3. Ta s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3 \u0111i kh\u1eafp ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta v\u00e0 xuy\u00ean qua ta. R\u1ed3i khi n\u00f3 \u0111i qua, ta s\u1ebd xoay con m\u1eaft b\u00ean trong \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. \u1ede nh\u1eefng n\u01a1i n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 \u0111i qua ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f2n g\u00ec c\u1ea3. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh ta.” V\u1eady n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ecdi lo\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m x\u00fac kh\u00e1c. N\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn v\u00e0 \u0111i. N\u1ebfu ta \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3 \u0111i qua ta, ta s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y n\u00f3 “\u1ea3o” nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. N\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m tin x\u01b0a c\u0169, nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 cho b\u1ea3n th\u1ec3 m\u1edbi c\u1ee7a ta hay l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eafp x\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ec3 “thu\u1ea7n h\u00f3a” ta ph\u1ea3i ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng theo l\u1ec1 l\u1ed1i c\u0169. G\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 l\u1edbn, n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 ra kh\u1ecfi v\u00f9ng an to\u00e0n. M\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng 4 n\u0103m li\u1ec1n v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh nh\u1ea3y kh\u1ecfi n\u00f3 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 tr\u0103n tr\u1edf r\u1ea5t r\u1ea5t l\u00e2u. M\u00ecnh s\u1ee3 m\u1ea5t \u0111i s\u1ef1 \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh, nh\u01b0ng m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n g\u00ec gi\u1eef m\u00ecnh n\u1eefa ngo\u00e0i c\u00e1i income \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eb7n c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. Ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c quay l\u1ea1i l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u0169 khi\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi, ki\u1ec7t s\u1ee9c d\u00f9 ch\u01b0a th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 \u0111i l\u00e0m l\u1ea1i v\u00ec c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh, d\u00f9 m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m n\u00f3 t\u1ed1t. V\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 th\u1ea5m v\u00e0o m\u00ecnh, r\u1ed3i d\u1ea7n \u0111i qua m\u00ecnh trong khi m\u00ecnh t\u00ecm h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111i m\u1edbi. M\u00ecnh hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 nh\u1eefng th\u1eed th\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m freelance nh\u01b0ng m\u00ecnh s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 c\u00f3 l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng m\u00ecnh th\u00edch. R\u1ed3i v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c g\u1eedi th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p \u0111\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh “c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n nh\u1ea5t” b\u1eb1ng nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch. M\u00ecnh v\u1eabn c\u00f2n s\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ea5y, nh\u01b0ng m\u00ecnh quy\u1ebft l\u00e0m c\u00f9ng n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3. R\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd nh\u00ecn n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 qua \u0111i. M\u00ecnh \u0111ang d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 soi chi\u1ebfu v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 x\u01b0a c\u0169. Khi v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00e1i r\u1ed3i, th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c th\u00f4i. Khi n\u00f3 qua \u0111i, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i ta phi\u00ean b\u1ea3n d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 do h\u01a1n. May we face our fear, set our intention clear and the universe will have it way. Th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 Th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 m\u00ecnh nh\u1eafc t\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, v\u00ec n\u00f3 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh. \u0110\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n h\u01a1n m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y, c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng m\u1eb7t c\u00f2n h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf \u1edf b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n do l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng v\u00f4 minh l\u00e2u ng\u00e0y. M\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng g\u00f3c t\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch duy nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 ta ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Ta nh\u00ecn n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1ch quan v\u00e0 ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt nh\u1ea5t. Ta kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 d\u00f9ng l\u00ed tr\u00ed \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1nh l\u1eeba b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o r\u1ed3i g\u1ea1t b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng m\u1eb7t c\u00f2n y\u1ebfu k\u00e9m m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a n\u00f3, th\u00ec n\u00f3 s\u1ebd v\u1eabn m\u00e3i \u1edf \u0111\u00f3, t\u1ea1o th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t s\u1ee9c \u1ef3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n m\u00e3i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n h\u01a1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. B\u00e0i h\u1ecdc n\u00e0y m\u00ecnh hi\u1ec3u s\u00e2u s\u1eafc, v\u00ec m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng th\u1eadt tr\u1ebb con v\u00e0 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. C\u00e1i sai l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t khi\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh kh\u00f3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng c\u01a1n \u0111au l\u00f2ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu nh\u1eadn l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh bu\u1ed3n, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i? M\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh n\u00ean m\u00ecnh c\u1ee9 \u0111\u1eafm s\u00e2u v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac t\u1ed1t “gi\u1ea3”, r\u1ed3i m\u1eafc k\u1eb9t trong v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e3i m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i. Cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi b\u1ea1n m\u00ecnh nh\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng “chuy\u1ec7n v\u1eeba r\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 m\u00e0”, m\u00ecnh m\u1edbi v\u1ee1 \u00f2a ra kh\u00f3c n\u1ee9c n\u1edf r\u1ed3i ng\u1ed3i xu\u1ed1ng th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt v\u1edbi t\u1eebng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac nh\u1ecf nh\u1ea5t. R\u1ed3i ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129, nh\u1eefng c\u1ed1 t\u1eadt l\u00e2u ng\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1c l\u1ed1i, m\u00ecnh vi\u1ebft h\u1ebft ra r\u1ed3i ph\u00e2n t\u00edch t\u1eebng \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ed9t. Ch\u1ec9 khi \u0111\u00f3, m\u00ecnh m\u1edbi gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 s\u00e2u g\u1ed1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec3n bi\u1ebfn th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt c\u00f2n quan tr\u1ecdng v\u00ec n\u00f3 gi\u1eef b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n. D\u1eabu bi\u1ebft cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ea9y khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta tr\u00f4i l\u0103n, ph\u1ea3i \u0111eo m\u1eb7t n\u1ea1 \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1ed3ng g\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Vi\u1ec7c “v\u00e0o vai” n\u00e0y, \u0111\u00f4i l\u00fac ch\u00fang ta t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 n\u00f3, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh th\u00f4i. Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 th\u00ed nghi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 con c\u00f3c trong n\u1ed3i n\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111un l\u00ean t\u1eeb t\u1eeb v\u1eady. Khi ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1c l\u1ed1i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, \u0111\u00f4i khi l\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u1ec5. V\u00ec v\u1eady, ngay khi c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i, ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 sau m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ta d\u00e0nh cho m\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng l\u00fac t\u0129nh l\u1eb7ng, s\u00e0ng l\u1ecdc l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc ch\u01b0a ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, r\u1ed3i t\u1ef1 nh\u1ee7 l\u1ea7n sau ta s\u1ebd l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ta n\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1a v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n, nh\u1edd h\u1ecd nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf ta m\u1ed7i khi th\u1ea5y ta \u0111ang c\u1ed1 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ai kh\u00e1c. C\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t v\u1eabn n\u00ean t\u1ef1 tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 b\u1ea1n nh\u1ea5t. Khi ta y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i qu\u00e1, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 s\u1ee9c g\u1ed3ng g\u00e1nh m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh n\u1eefa, ta h\u00e3y nh\u1edd \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n y\u00eau xung quanh. All the answer is within yourself, you just need to be completely honest. C\u1edfi m\u1edf M\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t th\u00edch t\u00ednh t\u1eeb c\u1edfi m\u1edf trong ti\u1ebfng anh (open – minded), ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ea7u \u00f3c lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1edf ra \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c m\u1edbi. \u0110\u00f4i khi ch\u00fang ta g\u1eb7p nh\u1eefng t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9, r\u1ed3i t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1, hay m\u1ea5t ni\u1ec1m tin v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Ch\u00fang ta h\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch “b\u1ecf h\u1ecdc”- lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc c\u0169 v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc m\u1edbi t\u1eeb b\u1ea5t k\u00ec t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o. C\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 ta xem n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m x\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00e1u v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu ti\u1ebfp thu nh\u1eefng nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c m\u1edbi. Nh\u00ecn s\u00e2u xa, th\u00ec c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u “\u0111\u00f3ng” n\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 v\u1ecf b\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 \u1ea9n gi\u1ea5u \u0111\u1eb1ng sau. Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m v\u00ec s\u1ee3 t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u01b0 l\u1ea7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc. M\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i hay chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, th\u00ec c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ta \u0111\u00e3 \u0111ang l\u00f9i l\u1ea1i r\u1ed3i. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1edfi m\u1edf r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng. N\u00f3 cho ta c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m m\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh, cho ta nh\u1eefng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng, k\u0129 n\u0103ng, b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc m\u1edbi. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 s\u1ed1ng c\u1edfi m\u1edf th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. V\u00ec h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u00e0 l\u00e0m \u0111\u1eb9p th\u00eam nh\u1eefng m\u1eb7t thi\u1ec7n l\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y. C\u00e1 nh\u00e2n m\u00ecnh lu\u00f4n r\u1ea5t qu\u00fd, tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng “b\u1ecf h\u1ecdc”. V\u00e0 ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng \u0111ang luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1edfi m\u1edf n\u00e0y m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y. N\u00f3 gi\u00fap m\u00ecnh y\u00eau qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng r\u1ed3i x\u00e2y l\u1ea1i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, y\u00eau vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh m\u1edbi m\u1ebb v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n h\u01a1n m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y. \u0110\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi, m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng y\u00eau cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00ec n\u00f3 lu\u00f4n ch\u1ee9a \u0111\u1ef1ng nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc m\u1edbi. M\u00ecnh t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 qu\u00fd m\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh h\u01a1n v\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea7y, kh\u01a1i d\u1eady nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t \u0111\u1ec3 ta h\u1ecdc th\u00eam, hay cho ta nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi. H\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean Trong quy\u1ec3n Ho\u00e0ng t\u1eed b\u00e9 c\u00f3 \u0111o\u1ea1n: “Ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn y\u00eau nh\u1eefng con s\u1ed1. Khi b\u1ea1n k\u1ec3 cho h\u1ecd r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 quan tr\u1ecdng. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd quan t\u00e2m v\u1ec1: Gi\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y th\u00edch tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i n\u00e0o nh\u1ea5t? Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y c\u00f3 s\u01b0u t\u1eadp b\u01b0\u01a1m b\u01b0\u1edbm kh\u00f4ng? Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecd h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1: S\u1ed1 tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y? Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y n\u1eb7ng bao nhi\u00eau? Cha ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao nhi\u00eau ti\u1ec1n? Qua nh\u1eefng con s\u1ed1 n\u00e0y h\u1ecd cho r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y.” \u0110o\u1ea1n tr\u00edch tr\u00ean l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u0111o\u1ea1n m\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u00edch trong quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch. N\u00f3 l\u00e0m m\u00ecnh b\u1eebng t\u1ec9nh v\u1ec1 t\u00ednh th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, hay kinh t\u1ebf c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. Sau m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i tr\u1ea3i qua nhi\u1ec1u bi\u1ebfn c\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n c\u01a1m \u00e1o g\u1ea1o ti\u1ec1n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 nh\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1ed9 c\u00e1i t\u00f4i h\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 d\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. V\u00ec v\u1eady s\u1ef1 h\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng, n\u00f3 cho ta con m\u1eaft m\u1edbi m\u1ebb, con m\u1eaft c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb th\u01a1 lu\u00f4n th\u00edch th\u00fa kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 v\u1ed1n l\u00e0. 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